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It’s Not the Size of the Joystick it’s How You Play the Game: 


The Myth of the Big Penis


By Shannon Marie

ed. by Stacy P.

            There is a belief in our culture that a man’s sexual organ has to be of a certain size. Take it from a bisexual woman: you do NOT need a big penis or to even have a penis at all to have a satisfying sexual relationship. The truth is research has shown that the average penis size is between approximately 4” to 7”, and most women report girth as more important than length. Even when that is considered it fails to account for the actual science of the vagina. The vagina adjusts itself to accommodate the size of what is going inside it. Another aspect rarely discussed is that the actual movement of the penis that stimulates the nerve endings in the vagina. Even when all this is brought into account it is important to remember that penetrative intercourse is only one way to have sex and even the satisfaction of that intercourse is dependent on so many things besides size.

The condition of the anxiety associated with penis size is a form of body dysmorphia and often begins when a person begins comparing themselves to others. Unfortunately most images of sexuality we are exposed to come from unrealistic pornography and men can resort to harmful and unnecessary methods to try to ‘measure up’. This anxiety can also lead to difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, which leads me back to my earlier point.

Be it emotion, mentality, innate energy, or whatever you want to call it, the physical aspect of the body plays a small role when compared to the psyche and the spirit. As our sage proprietor Celeste once told me “Its mind over matter. If you don’t mind it doesn’t matter”. To expand on this point, the anxiety and damaged sense of self-worth can be debilitating, but it can be conquered. Unchecked this anxiety can lead to decreased sense of self-worth and depression.  This belief, aside from just being not factually true, is a huge source of anxiety for many men. It is a tragedy of our society’s gender dynamics that men have this anxiety put on them to begin with, but matters are made worse by men having few places to go for support. Fortunately this is where we come in. Here at Positive Passions we cater to physical and intellectual needs by offering workshops and items for purchase. Our book selection includes titles like The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, and Toy Gasms. Our friends at Balance Within can help with emotional and spiritual healing. Learn more about Balance Within here.

In addition to this the following places have resources and support services.

http://www.sexualhealthcentresaskatoon.ca/index.php

http://avenuecommunitycentre.ca/



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