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Bullets and Vibes and Dildos, Oh My! Where to begin?


Note: this beginner toy guide is primarily directed at people with vaginas, so you penis & prostate havers may want to skip to paragraph 7 to get to your good stuff ;)

Hey everyone!

Now, I know many of you checking out our website here at Positive Passions are sex toy aficionados, but this post is for people who are just dipping their toes into the proverbial pool of passionate playthings. Selecting your first toy can be intimidating, because there are so many choices! Clitoral, vaginal, vibrating, non-vibrating, waterproof, suction cup, gel, plastic, glass, silicone... the possibilities are virtually endless! So, keeping in mind all of the different paths you can take, which one is best for you?

Your answer is as unique as you are! What kinds of touch do you like? If you don’t have much experience with sexual touching, the best way to find out what you’re into is to take things into your own hands (literally) via masturbation. Experiment with finding your clitoris and your g-spot, try a variety of pressures and movement styles, see if you like it inside, outside, fast, slow, light, hard, or all of the above!

My recommendations for beginners with vaginas are the Neon Luv Touch ($24.95), the Slimline G ($29.95), and the Fukuoku ($49.95).

The Neon Luv Touch is a classic, single speed bullet with a smooth body and reasonably strong vibration. Many people (myself included!) start their foray into the sex toy world with just such a bullet, because they are easy to use and cost-effective. These bullets are small and easy to grip, which makes them great for adding additional stimulation during intercourse as well!

The Slimline G is a non-porous, plastic G-spot vibe (though the head can also be used externally for clitoral stimulation) with dial controls. The benefit of a dial control is that rather than choosing light, medium, or strong vibrations, there’s a more of a gradient allowing for more vibration choice.  The hardness of the toy can be intimidating, but harder toys can result in a stronger orgasm as rather than absorbing orgasmic contractions, they send them right back to you: double the fun!

The Fukuoku is a single speed clitoral vibe with a twist: you wear it on your finger! This makes for an easy addition to your current self-touch routine. It can do everything your fingers can do, but with more intensity! The “fingertip” of the vibe also has some lovely ridges for even more sensations. Because the Fukuoku is essentially an extension of your finger, it is easy to use and ideal for beginners.

Now, those toys are primarily intended for people with vaginas, but some people with penises find vibrations wonderful for the head of the penis, the testicles, the perineum... a whole host of places really!* If you’re looking for some beginner anal or prostate stimulation though, I would recommend X10 Anal Beads ($14.95) or a Basix Mini Butt Plug ($19.95). Both of these pleasure objects are very affordable and ideal for beginners. The X10 Anal Beads start smaller than the Basix, and allow you to build up to a ball wider in diameter than the Basix. However, the Basix is a very soft flexible gel compared to the hard plastic of the X10s.

You have the run-down on a few of our toy options, so come by the store to see them in person! We have demos of each of these (and many more) products, so you can test vibrations and material feel for yourself before you commit. Getting people started on their sex toy journey is an amazing part of this job, so don’t be afraid to ask questions! Our staff will be more than happy to help you.

Now go find you perfect plaything!

-Michaela Madraga

 

*Anal safety blurb: Never put anything in your butt if it doesn’t have a base or you will lose it! Be sure to start any vibrating toys prior to anal insertion, as beginning vibration inside the rectum will cause it to seize up. Remember: the anus isn’t self-lubricating, so lube it up!

 



Anderson says

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My Wife left me in February and wasn't coming back. No need for anonymity, I am a firm believer in your spell and it saved my marriage. I'm so excited to share this testimony about how i got my wife back(Michelle)after she left me and our 2 kids for another Man. I am Anderson from United States). After 6 years of marriage, me and my wife(Michelle) has been into one quarrel or the other until she finally left me and moved to California to be with another man. I felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their mother again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my wife-Michelle). Every day and night i think of her and always wish she would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Prophet Efe of ( efepowerfultemple@gmail.com) can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it, Then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my Wife really called me and told me that she miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy, and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,
Thanks to Prophet efe for bringing back my wife and brought great joy to me and my family today!. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your wife moved to another man, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: efepowerfultemple@gmail.com , you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347081602438."
posted on: October 16, 2017 3:43 AM

Anderson says

"PROPHET EFE Saved My Marriage"Contact: efepowerfultemple@gmail.com for Urgent Love Spell To Get Your Ex Lover Back Fast, VERY POWERFUL:100% GUARANTEED RESULTS!

My Wife left me in February and wasn't coming back. No need for anonymity, I am a firm believer in your spell and it saved my marriage. I'm so excited to share this testimony about how i got my wife back(Michelle)after she left me and our 2 kids for another Man. I am Anderson from United States). After 6 years of marriage, me and my wife(Michelle) has been into one quarrel or the other until she finally left me and moved to California to be with another man. I felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their mother again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my wife-Michelle). Every day and night i think of her and always wish she would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Prophet Efe of ( efepowerfultemple@gmail.com) can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it, Then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my Wife really called me and told me that she miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy, and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,
Thanks to Prophet efe for bringing back my wife and brought great joy to me and my family today!. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your wife moved to another man, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: efepowerfultemple@gmail.com , you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347081602438."
posted on: October 16, 2017 3:44 AM

Jessica says

"After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealing@gmail.com or call him +2349055637784 you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS"
posted on: November 11, 2017 9:02 PM

Caroline Webb says

"
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posted on: January 27, 2018 10:23 PM

MONICA DAVID says

"SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE WITH GOOD RESULT TO TESTIFY ABOUT

I am Monica David from Ontario Canada, i want to testify about the good service of Dr. Ugo Wonders living in USA for helping me bring back my fiancee who left me because of a prostitute. it was a terrible and depressing time when my fiancee whom we were supposed to be married in two months cancelled our wedding because of a prostitute who cast a spell on him and stole him away. i was searching for help online when i saw a review about Dr. Ugo of General Spell Temple, i then contacted him for help. I followed all his instruction accordingly as he assured and guaranteed me that my Fiancee will be back in 48 hours, to my greatest surprise in exactly two days after the spell was cast, my Fiance called me and started to apologize for leaving me because of another lady. i waited for two months in which we are now married before i could testify and right now, we are one happy family and its going to remain like this for ever.. all thanks to Dr. Ugo Wonders of General Spell Temple. you can contact Dr. Ugo for any relationship problem through his direct email
generalspelltemple@gmail.com or call him directly on +1 386-336-9876

website:http://generalspelltempleblog.wordpress.com
"
posted on: January 29, 2018 8:16 AM

Sarah Jack says

"

Henderson Elizabeth
Dr joy is a trust worthy spell caster and he will be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4 years of marriage my husband left me because I lost my womb, and i was unable to give birth to children. I felt like my life has come to an end, and i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time, but thanks to this spell caster called Dr joy whom i met online after my friend Becky Ross told me how he also helped her to bring back her husband in less than 2 days. I believed her and decided to give Dr joy a try and i contacted him on his email joylovespell@gmail.com. and explained my problems to him. He laughed and told me that In less than 2 days, my Husband will come back to me again, and that he will restore my womb and i will give birth to children. At first i thought it was a joke but i took courage and believed as Dr joy has said and it did happen just as this Great spell caster said, My husband called me and was crying, begging for forgiveness. I forgive him and today i am so glad that all worries and problems has gone away, and we are even happier than before, another good news is that i am pregnant now, and very soon we will have our baby. Dr joy is really a gifted and a powerful spiritual man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. I advice you all If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems just Contact Dr joy on his email on joylovespell@gmail.com. because he will always help you to solve all problems. Once again thank you Dr joy. Thank you, thank you.
you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347088404185.
"
posted on: February 2, 2018 12:10 AM


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